How does PFL Mentoring work?
Mentors meet their mentees once a week or fortnightly for an hour or two at a location convenient for both participants, normally in borough. Generally for a minimum term of Six weeks through to Three months, or for longer periods over the course of a full year. Meetings will enable mentors to talk to young people about their achievements, their plans, their interests, careers, school and home life, and anything in between! There are no hard and fast rules. The most important element of the project is building a supportive partnership between mentor and mentee, which will provide an environment in which young people feel they can be themselves and in which they can work towards fulfilling their potential.
Meetings can take many forms. They may be informal chats, specific tasks (ie - help with homework) or activity sessions (taking part in sport, visiting a place of interest) Initially mentors and mentees get to know each other, build up trust and find out what they want to achieve. Mentoring is about setting goals, not just keeping someone company, but most of the time mentors provide a listening ear. The fact that mentors give their time and care about the young person makes a real difference.
Mentoring may involve introducing a young person to new ideas, challenges, and experiences and by doing this, helps to build their confidence and raise their self esteem. Allowing them to develop the skill of navigating obstacles and barriers to their goals, and future life journey. Mentors may give advice on school and education, managing money, or preparation for job applications and interviews. Mentors may take mentees somewhere new or share a hobby like music or sport. Mentors might introduce young people to new opportunities in education, training or employment, or visit a new school, library or Connexions centre with them.